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Stay Bright!

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Hey there...anyone who is reading this :) I have not posted in FOREVER! This school year was a hit the ground running year with COVID and online learning and in person learning and getting my own kiddos accustomed to the "new norm"...ewww I don't like that.  I just wanted to pop in and take a jump into what it has been like for my special needs kiddos in a world that focuses more on senses now and less on affection and touch. In some ways this has worked marvelously for my students who prefer space and do not want to be touched. They are able to keep to their bubbles and not worry about physical contact which gives them high anxiety. It has also worked to my advantage when it comes to these kiddos that are online. Getting them to pay attention to peoples emotions and facial expressions has become easier because it is all that they are seeing. I feel they have grown in this aspect and when they finally come face to face they will do it more. Where my heart aches is for my ...

Sleep Issues...What Can You Do?

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     Everyone knows when you don't get a good nights sleep you probably are not going to be at your best the next day. Studies link intellectual performance to sleep and have found that  50% of children with ADHD suffer with sleep problems (which if you have a child with ADHD does not come as a shock) and that individuals with Autism actually  “  have lower levels of melatonin ,  the naturally occurring hormone that helps regulate wakefulness and sleep cycles” (Carter , 2020). The population of children diagnosed with Autism is growing by the day and the amount of children with ADHD is also growing at a high rate. Many children with disabilities also have combined diagnosis with ADHD.  This then leaves many children with sleep difficulties which adds to behavior difficulties and intellectual difficulties. There are many many resources out there with multitudes of tips and suggestions just like the one I recently have found by Parents.com that...

Lifesavers- Sensory tools that really do help!

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    Hello everyone! I wanted to try something different tonight... So many special needs parents and educators are always looking for ways to help our kiddos do their very best while accommodating things that are out of their control such as sensory tools. Over the years I have tried many different products to help with varying difficulties. Here are some that I have tried and will stick by because they have worked for more than one individual on my service. They can all be found on Amazon, and in different prices and brands so I will not specify any specific brands because of that. If you have other needs or questions beyond what I post please ask away in the comments and I will be happy to help! Difficulties sitting still and focusing: Sit fit cushion- good for movement while sitting Marble fidgets- a great quiet fidget to pass in-between the fingers so as to keep busy but also stay focused. Stretchy bands- These work well for kids that like to have movement and squish in th...

Therapy from my Perspective

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     We all have heard of some type of therapy in our lives and most likely have needed one at some point as well. Whether it is physical therapy, mental therapy, speech therapy, occupational therapy, behavioral therapy, and so on we are familiar with at least one of them.                 Now imagine being a special needs parent and sitting in a room where you are being told your child has a disability and needs the following therapies: speech and language therapy-script is put on the table, occupational therapy- script is put on the table, ABA therapy- script is put on the table, physical therapy- script is put on the table. You sit look at all of these scripts, look at your beautiful baby boy with whom you knew had some difficulties but in your eyes didn't need this much help. You stand up, walk out, go home and just cry, This was me the day my son was diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder. I felt like I just went to seek h...

Tips on how to get through an IEP meeting...Yes-I Understand the Pain!

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     If you are reading this you are either an educator or a parent who either has been through and IEP meeting or is about to. Lets get the acronym out of the way first- IEP= Individual Education Plan. I conduct close to seventy of these meetings each school year. Not one is alike, and no matter how much you try to prepare they bring a bit of anxiety for both the parent and believe it or not the educator too. In this blog I am going to give some tips I have learned along the way as a mom of a special needs child for 9 years, and a special educator for 4 to both the educator and the parent. Educator Tips: When I prepare for an IEP meeting...especially a child's initial (first) IEP meeting I make sure to do everything I can to prepare the parents. I have resources available and the LEA and I also make sure the parents know they can ask as many questions as they need prior to, during and after the meeting. Educators- make sure you know the child. Get to know more than t...

From a Parent's Perspective

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         It has been a while since my last post, but I intend on blogging more regularly  in hopes that they will help some of you in your own journey.           When I first started teaching I felt as if I could light the world on fire one child at a time. My first few years were all about the decor, cute projects and finding my style. Little did I know what lay ahead of me in my future of teaching as well as parenting. In my first five years of teaching I taught grades one, four and five and had my first son. In my sixth year I started teaching Kindergarten and gave birth to my second son who was born with many complications. Teaching Kindergarten opened my eyes more than ever to the challenges children face even before the age of 10 and how academic difficulties often align with behavior issues. In this first year of teaching Kindergarten I came across a student that opened my eyes to the special needs world. She struggled ...

Applied Behavior Analysis Resources for Teaching & Parenting Children on the Spectrum

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Hey All! It has been quite a while since I posted on here. Alot has happened in the behavior world since my last post. I have begun teaching social stories with three of my ASD students and my recent Masters class is on Applied Behavior Analysis. I have been learning many principles and strategies of ABA and how to implement in the school setting as well as at home. One area that I know tends to be a struggle for teachers and parents is the amount of resources and information out there. They can be absolutely overwhelming! I am hoping that by providing some resources that I have researched personally as an educator and parent of a child with ASD,  I can help eliminate some of those overwhelming feelings. Sooo without further adeu...Here they are RIGHT at your finger tips: Applied Behavior Analysis Resources for Educators, Parents and Caregivers The first of these resources is Autism Speaks. " Autism Speaks is dedicated to promoting solutions, across the spectrum and throu...